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Easy on the perfume. You want to make an impression, but you don't want to knock him out!

Don't forget to use mouthwash before you go out.

Don't order sloppy food. Some of us can't help ourselves when faced with spaghetti sauce, melted butter or blueberry pie. A food stain on yourself may be "charming," but splattering your date with food is a definite dating don't.

Keep the conversation pleasant. This is a first date, not a therapy session. Don't talk about old boyfriends, girlfriends, or ex-spouses.

Don't be rude if you decide your date is a dud. Unless you want to rack up some bad dating karma, be honest but gentle. "I don't think we're as compatible offline as I thought," should suffice. Don't say you'll call if you know you won't.

Be attentive! There is nothing worse then a date peering over your shoulder making you feel as if they are looking for something better.

I'm not talking about an interrogation, but everyone is flattered when asked about their interests. Ask leading questions and listen attentively; there may be a test later.

Let your personality shine through with your responses, and remember that optimism is more attractive than pessimism. Stay positive.

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